In this feature for The Sun, relationship expert Lorin Krenn discusses the growing issue of “micro-cheating” — subtle behaviors that may seem harmless but can quietly erode trust and emotional safety in a relationship.
The article explores how actions such as secret messaging, emotional intimacy outside the relationship, or hidden flirtation can create distance between partners, even when no physical affair has occurred. Lorin emphasizes that the real defining factor is secrecy and lack of transparency, rather than the behavior itself.
He explains how repeated small breaches of trust can gradually weaken connection over time and shares guidance on rebuilding trust through honesty, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The piece encourages couples to address these patterns early before they develop into larger relationship issues.

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