What if the exact same patterns in your intimate life show up in your relationship with money, your career, even your soul’s calling?
When we cling in relationships and need constant re-assurance, then it’s very likely in our financial life we have a habit of checking whether the “money has already arrived”. We need to be assured: am I still safe and secure?
When it comes to living our soul’s calling we need reassurance: is our dream manifesting? Are we truly moving toward it? If there is a setback, or a delay, then we start to worry.
And in the relationship with our own body, the moment there is an ache or small pain, we start to imagine that our body or health is failing.
Or the flipside:
When we create distance to protect our vulnerable heart in relationships, then we might disregard looking at our bank account, or put off managing our finances with love and care.
We might push through exhaustion instead of letting ourselves rest, or ignore the tension in our shoulders because we are too busy to feel it, too busy to listen to our body.
This is much harder to spot in your relationship with money, or with your soul’s calling. It becomes crystal clear in your intimate life because it involves another person, there is a clear reflection of our unconscious patterns, beliefs, and conditioning.
Hard truth: How you relate to one thing… is how you relate to everything.
This isn’t always obvious. It reveals itself in the subtle. The same fear, the same limiting belief, simply shapeshifts.
Because to our nervous system it is the same pain if we are worried about love, abundance, or our health “leaving” us.
As you can see, it all has the same core. And that core is slightly different to each person, but once you discover it and see it, you cannot unsee it. You cannot help but see how this impacts all areas in your life that matter to you.
Why does it affect especially the areas that matter to you?
Because the psyche is intelligent. If old wounding arises in areas that do not matter, there wouldn’t be a strong incentive to change things.
When it comes to your intimate life, your relationship with money, abundance, your soul’s deepest dreams… you are forced to if you want these things and true freedom.
It resurfaces everywhere for one reason: It is showing you exactly where to look.
The way you check your phone for a text back is the way you check whether the money has already arrived.
Find the pattern once and you will find it everywhere it lives.
None of this started with your relationships, your money, or your body. It started with the little girl, or the little boy, who first learned this was the only way to stay safe from pain. These responses protected you back then. They were an intelligent response. Now they cost you true freedom and abundance.
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