Relationship

I have helped people work through some of the deepest crises, identity loss, grief, that one can imagine. While holding this sacred space for others, I have had the privilege of learning things about …

When a woman grew up with a father who wasn't a safe masculine presence, she will often unconsciously look for the safety she never received in other men, or partners. This is where it can get a …

One of the most difficult things for a woman to do in a relationship is to set a boundary.  The reason why is because most women have been conditioned to create "harmony" in relationships, and have …

I always attract emotionally unavailable partners. I desire real connection. I have done real inner work. What is wrong with me? A client said this to me. I responded: There is nothing wrong …

The mother wound is the wound of love. And we might spend many years looking for the love we never received. Searching for this sense of being loved as we are, even the parts that we deemed …

Through coaching thousands of people I have come to realize something about human nature: We believe we have 30 problems arising from 20 wounds, but in truth we have ONE CORE pattern, one core …

Most women carry pain from their relationship with the masculine, be it with a father, a past relationship, or a painful connection.  This pain usually shows up in 3 ways: The Over Giver. She …

A common challenge that comes up for women is the fear of speaking up, the fear of being too much. But… The deeper fear is that what she says gets dismissed. This is not some far fetched …

What if the exact same patterns in your intimate life show up in your relationship with money, your career, even your soul's calling? When we cling in relationships and need constant re-assurance, …

Abandonment actually feels like death, and there’s research to prove it. Neuroscientists at UCLA ran an experiment where people played a simple ball tossing game while their brains were scanned. …